Before we tell someone you love them, try to find all the things we love about that person.
Could be personality traits or just situations we been through together that made our love grow. 
We get love mixed up with lust and liking someone alot, but if we can leave at the drop of a dime and not look back; that wasn't love.
Love makes us worry, ask questions, do things you wouldn't normally do for anyone; like neglect ourself.
If we can be intimate with someone-else without thinking about the person we love, we don't really love them.
Learn to trust ourself before we want someone to trust us. 
Let's love ourself before we want someone to love us.
Bottom line, Love is a hard to come by. If we love someone and they love us back; Love hard. If we give them our all and don't get anything in return; Go on without us.